Male Breast Enlargement - A Reality

This blog is dedicated to the men who are exploring new areas of gender - male breast enlargement. I am a married, heterosexual man who is undergoing this process. I wecome you to review my experiences and add comments of your own...

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Wearing a Bra, AND... Loving It!

I have been wearing a bra, now, longer than I have been writing this blog. And my love affair with wearing this intimate feminine garment continues.

OH, don't get me wrong. There has been a day or two when I asked myself - do I really have to put on a bra today? But then there have been many more days, where I have asked myself, do I really have to get dressed today...

There is something truly special about bras that no other piece of woman's clothing can match. Sure there are dresses and skirts, but men wear kilts and togas and robes. Panties are just briefs without an opening. High heels are matched by platform shoes.

If there is one article of clothing that states this is feminine only - it is a bra.

I don't wear a bra all the time - mainly when I am working. And sometimes on weekends when I am out shopping or fooling around. A lot of times, though, I do like the feel of being unfettered, so to speak, even if it is a little uncomfortable when my breasts move too much or unexpectedly.

Perhaps, one day I will find wearing a bra routine, but I think that day is still far off. Putting on a bra is part of that statement of being a man with breasts. And that is a statement I enjoy making.

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am really looking forward to wearing a bra, but at the slow rate my breasts are developing, it will be quite a few months before that happens. My first bra will no doubt be a sports bra, as my A+ cup size breasts already jiggle and bounce when I jog/run. I've decided that when I can finally fill one of my wife's 42B bras, it'll be time for a bra. ... Not there, yet. Now and then I catch my wife staring at my developing breasts (I haven't been hiding them from her). The only comment she has made was to warn me about taking hormones and the danger of breast cancer. I'm hoping that one of these days she tells me "Honey, if you insist on developing your breasts, I'm going to insist you start wearing a bra". I can hardly wait for that day. ... By the way, how does your wife feel about you wearing a bra? Does it bother her if/when it shows through your clothing that you are wearing a bra?

Aleya said...

I have always been an embarrassment to my wife, so...

Seriously, I always try to dress appropriately for where we are. If were going to the mall, it doesn't matter what other people think or even say. We have been mis-seen as two women together at times, for example.

But around family member or more serious social occasions, I dress in a way that deemphasizes my breasts and the bra I am wearing.

While she has never stated negative feelings about my wearing a bra, I do try to keep any hidden feelings she may have in mind.

Anonymous said...

Ah, true love! She stays with you and obviously loves you. Maybe she likes you the way you now are. Have you asked her? And by the way, do your breasts continue to grow? What if they get to D size or larger, where it becomes impossible to hide them ... how will that change your life when you can't 'have it both ways'?

Aleya said...

Yes, I do think she likes the way I am now. But I have not been able to get her to say she really likes my breasts. So I don't push the issue. Most of our time is spent dealing with survival (like we all are).

Note that some of my changes have been in other areas than just the physical. My day to day personality has become calmer and less tempermental. I know she likes that.

D Cups would most likely take me into a space where my physical changes could not be hidden. That would take me into unknown territory, but one I look forward to experiencing. I hope to be ready to openly share myself, if I reach that stage.

My breast growth has slowed down, but I am taking a break for a few weeks. Then I shall try restarting the herbal program as if I was just beginning.

Anonymous said...

It sounds like your wife hasn't quite made up her mind, or can't bring herself to tell you ... perhaps fearing you will go all out to grow to D cup or even bigger. She may not feel she is ready for that yet. ... But it looks like you are ready for D size, and even anxious to get there. I say 'go for it'! I'm debating whether or not to go back on TF. It's that 'survival thing'... TF is too expensive. I'm hoping that what they said is true and that I've gone beyond a 'point of no return' and continue to slowly develop my breasts without having to take anything more. At the rate I've been developing, I should reach B or maybe even C cup size in a year or two.

Anonymous said...

Just as there is nothing men can experience like breasts, there is nothing like the bra that supports those breasts: the straps over the shoulders, the thick, snug band around the sides and back, the large, smooth cups that offer support, comfort, and modesty to one's breasts while at the same time drawing attention to them via the obvious straps and band. Nothing like them at all!

"Honey, if you insist on developing your breasts, I'm going to insist you start wearing a bra".

That would be a dream come true! Shopping for one's first training bra as your woman offers her experience on what will properly support and protect your tender, developing bosom... ah, what a dream!

Anonymous said...

A dream indeed! But I think I'm beyond the 'training bra' stage. This morning I measured myself and I'm now between an A and B cup size. Another inch across the bustline should do the trick ... it will be time for a bra. Next month, August 14th to be exact, it will be one year since I started on Transfemme. I must say, it's been fun watching (and feeling) my boobs grow. And the best thing is, I have no control over how big they will grow and I'm stuck with them forever. I hope I take after my dad's side of the family, as his female relatives were all D cup or larger.

Aleya said...

From a previous post: "I must say, it's been fun watching (and feeling) my boobs grow."

That is certainly been the case for me. It has been amazing to feel and watch my breasts grow, both emotionally and mentally.

I asked my wife what she remembered about her breast growth and she said that it was nothing special - it was just what happened to girls.

I suspect she, like all women, are so caught up in the rush of puberty and teenage years - they can't realize how precious and interesting these experiences are.

As adults, who are on this adventure, we can savor this experience of growing breasts - it is a delight to me everyday.

Anonymous said...

I know I didn't ignore what happened to my own sisters and my female classmates during our early teens. Oh how I envied them as I watched them turn from little girls to beautiful young women! Some were embarrassed by their developing breasts and tried to hide them. Others were proud of their breasts and went out of their way to show them off. The girls I really felt sorry for were the ones who waited seemingly forever to develop, but ended up flat-chested. About age 14 I put on some extra weight, including breasts big enough to fit into one of my older sister's B cup bras. I was thrilled, but at the same time afraid and embarrassed. I was teased mercilessly by my male classmates ... also beat up a few times. So I was both relieved and deeply disappointed when my boobs disappeared in my late teens. Now I don't have to worry about gym class or what my boss and fellow workers may think (I'm retired), so I'm growing my breasts back ... hopefully to at least C cup size. And I plan to wear a bra. All I have to worry about is what my darling wife thinks ... and what my grown children think. But it's my body and my life and I'm not getting any younger. Besides, the matter is now out of my control, as I'm beyond the point of no return (ten months on Transfemme) and my breasts will grow to B, C or D cup size ... whatever my genetics dictate ... for better or for worse. And that's the way I like it and want it.

Anonymous said...

Today after two months of being back on the herbs my wife, seeing me in a lightweight shirt said, "you need a bra" and off to Walmart for a few groceries and three size 44 sport bras. Life is good.

Aleya said...

Congratulations. That is great. Now, you not only have a supportive wife, but some supportive bras...

Anonymous said...

Congratulations! I hope you're not done growing. How lucky you are to have a supportive wife! The next step for you will be to graduate from sports bras to regular bras (shoulder straps, back straps and cups). For that you will need a 'bra fitting' session at an 'intimates' department. That should be both very embarrassing and a lot of fun!

Anonymous said...

have just started on this wonderful journey of self discovery both of coming out gay and growing my breasts...am a little overweight so am lucky bought my first bra and can almost fill a b cup...omg what a feeling to wear a bra...what a thrill and to feel my oober sensitive nipples rubbing on the cup....i get goosebumps all over my body