Men With Breasts Dating Site

As more and more men grow their own breasts, there is an increasing need for these men to be able to find new relationships.

I am lucky, in that, I am married with a wife who is accepting of my changes. And many of the readers of this blog have indicated that they, too, have accepting wives and partners. We are not out on the dating scene and seeking the type of companionship that means revealing this private part of ourselves. But there are and will be more men who need a convenient way to meet others who are aware in advance of a part of their specialness - being a man with breasts.

Or perhaps, you have a desire to communicate and/or meet men in your local community who are also growing their breasts.

With this in mind, I have opened a new website to help serve the growing group of men with breasts. I have opened a Men With Breasts Dating Site. It is a site where you can tell others about yourself and make connections, email other members, instant message or join a chat room to discuss whatever with other members.

Men With Breasts Dating Site is brand-new and with the exception of some test profiles has no membership. But you can't have any membership until you build the site to begin with...

If this site has a real need, as I believe it does, then the Men With Breasts Dating Site will grow and grow, becoming a place where meaningful relationships can be created.

While you can check out the site for free, to get the most value out of the site, you need to become a member. There is a membership fee with two levels - Silver which costs $6 for 6 months and a Gold Level that costs $10 for a year's membership. At the moment, the two levels have basically the same rights - it just gives you the option to check things out for a slightly less money, if you join at the Silver level.

I do need to charge fees for two main reasons. I need to defray the associated costs of running a dating site. And a fee-barrier helps to keep out people (women and men) who are not really interested in finding men with breasts.

Running a site like this is new to me - so your feedback will be most appreciated. And everyone who starts joining up now must realize it will take time for the database to grow to an extent where connections can be made easily. Of course, if you do join or otherwise want the site to be successful - letting everyone who would be interested in such a site - know about it, will help it grow to a point where it can really be of service to the men with breasts community!

UPDATE! I have set the Free Membership to 6 months with basically the same privileges of paid membership - this will give everyone a chance to participate who wants to and find out if this kind of site will be of use to them.

Click the following link to reach the Men With Breasts Dating Site.

The Book of the Breast, a herstory

As someone who has purposefully denied the natural order of things and grown breasts, it should surprise no one that I have a certain fixation on breasts. On the other hand, being a male, in general, also qualifies me to have a fixation on breasts...

One of the more interesting authors in the world is Robert Anton Wilson. A reviewer for the Denver Post once referred to Wilson as "...the Lenny Bruce of Philosophers".

Years ago, he wrote a book for the Playboy Press entitled "The Book of the Breast." This books looks at the historical and current effects that Breasts have on society.

In this book, Wilson makes many fine arguments about the value of the Breast and why we should be adoring the Breast. Of course, throughout most of Judea-Christian history, breasts and sexuality have been reviled and hidden away... Still whatever the attitude of a society holds towards breasts has swayed their culture. And as you read the book, you will find that Robert Anton Wilson convincingly traces every advancement & atrocity committed in human history to the attitude toward the human breast current at that time.

As I read the book, I discovered what I probably always knew... Breasts change things. They change they way we interact with women and they change the way women act in the world. (My own breasts have changed me!) And it is fascinating to follow the patterns created by what breasts change. A look at the Rise and Fall and Re-rise of the Goddess is also intertwined within the book.

If you want a change in your world view, pick up any book by Robert Anton Wilson. But since you are probably reading this blog because of an interest in breasts - growing your own. I suggest you start with this book.

"The Book of the Breast" as published by Playboy was illustrated with Playboy pin-ups. While I believe it is out of print, copies are still available through Amazon (click title links to go to Amazon).

A more recent version of the book, retitled "Ishtar Rising: Or, Why the Goddess Went to Hell and What to Expect Now That She's Returning" is also available. It does not contain the playboy pin-ups however. Either version contains the most valuable portion - Wilson's writing!

Wife Jealous of Husband's Breasts

I could not help the tabloid type headline for this post. The reason for the statement - Wife Jealous of Husband's Breasts - is that my wife said, in a moment of whimsy, I suspect, that she was, "Envious of my perky breasts." And I guess my breasts are perky, right now.

This comment came up during a conversation, ironically, about my wife wanting to get a breast reduction. Her breasts have gotten larger over the years and have to some extent (I am being delicate here) sagged a bit. I think they are wonderful, but she has her own opinions.

The truth is that breasts do change over the years. And my "perky male breasts" are being pulled down by the forces of gravity. But they have not yet begun to fold.

So what does folding mean? I will need to be a little technical here, first by speaking about the inframammary crease.

The inframammary crease is where the lower breast actually connects to the rest of the torso. The area is rich is collagen and elastin since these are required to help support the breast tissue. In a young or small breast, the inframammary fold will be visible to the eye upon casual observation. The breast will not hang over the fold in these cases. As age and other lifestyle changes affect the breast tissue, it is common for the position of the breast to change in relation to the fold. Often the breast begins to descend over the fold, concealing it from view (sagging). Eventually, the nipple and the majority of glandular breast tissue might wind up below the inframammary crease.

Breastfeeding and gravity are the two main reasons for the breasts to fold over. Not every woman's breasts will fold in this manner. My wife, who is a nurse, has examined women who are older than her whose typically smaller breasts have remained perky.

Men whose breasts get no larger than B or maybe even C cup-size may also maintain perky breasts (we are unlikely to breastfeed in any serious way). Which is something to keep in mind if any woman every gets catty about your breasts.

Most of the breasts I have seen - either directly or in pictures - have folded. A part of me wants to have that same look, which is the inner image I have of a woman's bosom. My body has really changed, though... Sometimes, stepping out of the shower, I catch a glimpse of my upper torso in the mirror and wonder who is that woman... it is me with perky breasts!